If you've ever struggled to flirt, or if you don't know how to do it at all, you've come to the right place. Generally, if you are generally embarrassed socially, whether in a relaxed or professional context, it means that you are not part of the privileged caste of a born charmer, or born seducer. So of course, showing that you're romantically attracted to someone can be tricky. It's perfectly normal to feel a bit of anxiety and stress when you're around the person you're lusting after, and the weight you take on putting yourself in the head that you have to attract that person can weigh you down even more. more. Luckily, this short article is going to show you some tricks that you can apply right away, to become a master charmer.
What is flirting?
We will start with the literal meaning of the word. To put it very, very simply, flirting is a social (and sexual) behavior that indicates that you are romantically or sexually attracted to another person. In general, this act, or this situation, has certain key elements, which are: the play, the teasing which is incorporated into the interaction. Flirting can be noticed in communication, body language (which is the most important component), and gestures. And it's very difficult to detect, which is why we tend to misunderstand, overinterpret, or simply make mistakes when trying to identify a flirt.
When flirting, it's crucial to strike a good balance between being clear and communicating your emotions, while keeping the interaction enjoyable, fun, and keeping the other person intrigued by your behavior. This is what women (and men) love, and our Lyon escorts love it.
What is implied: make the person wonder about you, whether they are attracted to them or not. If you want to learn how to flirt like a pro, here are our tips to make it second nature for you, and potentially, make you meet (and seduce) the person you deserve.
We will now teach you how to flirt concretely, in several key points.
Le “eye contact”
You know it. I know it. We all know it: we positively impact people when we look them in the eye. Or rather: it drastically increases our chances. I'm not asking you to stare like a hungry predator, just grab the person's attention. See it in the opposite situation: you are sitting with colleagues in a bar, you participate well in the discussion, and the object of your lust too. Besides, you are there for her: you would never have come otherwise. You had to take public transport to come to this big and noisy bar. But you don't look her in the eye or when you talk or when she talks. And every time your eyes meet, you quickly look away… She'll think of you as shy at best, fearful at worst. Eye contact is one of the best ways to indicate that you are interested in someone. And besides, it can even boost the feelings, and the attraction of the person you are looking at.
Smile, even if you're not filmed
Not only does it make you more attractive and approachable, but it can create genuine affection for you. See even, a romantic interest. Because seeing you smile makes you want to smile, it sends back a positive image to the person you smile at. So naturally, it makes you want to get to know yourself. Small bonus: if you smile with your eyes, it will light up your whole face, and it will accentuate the sparkles in your eyes (and in the eyes of your loved one too).
Give compliments
This one is to be taken with a grain of salt. We don't abuse compliments, because as we say: the more there are, the less it works, and it's true. Even though the fountain fables show how much flattery can help you in your business, it will only partially help you. So you want to be sure that your compliments are sincere, and don't go overboard (you have nice buttocks, Geraldine, but she's your work colleague, we avoid). This will help to put the person in confidence, about him and by extension… of you (since it is you who give him this feeling, this little rush of self-confidence). Besides, don't go into originality, where then take what is called calculated risks. Otherwise, the eyes, the lips, the smile, the hair, the outfit, these are things to compliment. Although it may be tempting, your attraction to the person's body is something you keep to yourself, so as not to cross the line. If you exchange text messages, there you can go a little further in the search, and compliment him or her on intelligence, gentleness, insight, culture, etc.
Try to know what the other thinks of you
Don't be shy - you can ask straight away. But it can ruin your efforts at discretion, and your patience. Most people love sharing advice because it gives value to their opinions. So it's a tactic that works well. And in the register of slightly deceitful (but effective) tactics: get the person's thoughts out about you (but indirectly). Let me explain if you ask “should I dye my hair or keep it natural” or “do you think I should trim my beard a little or keep it”... These questions make the person feel like you want to make an effort to impress them and appear more attractive to them. By the way, if you're texting,