In this article, I had presented the importance of preliminaries in a sexual act, which it takes place with an escort or with your life partner.
Is good sex-related to preliminaries or not? There are people who can not design a preliminary sexual game, while others do not see interest and go directly to sex. It depends on the person and from time to time if the preliminaries are welcome or not. The same person can have different desires at distinct moments, one day wanting sex with preliminaries, another day feel the only need for the sexual act itself.
If you are at the initiation of a relationship, things may not do well at the beginning, but your partners should be aware that each person is unique. The fact that previous partners liked some things does not guarantee that current partners like the same things.
When it comes to foreplay, in most cases, men and women don't see things the same way during a sexual encounter, for example. Experts say that in general, a woman needs more time to be aroused enough, so it is good for the man to give her the opportunity to have successful foreplay.
What is the prelude?
Any erotic activity performed with a view to intercourse is considered a prelude. Often times, this part is more enjoyable for women than meeting sex. Therefore, it is necessary that the man pays special attention to this activity before sex with an escort girl . Foreplay is important for triggering physical and mental responses that make sex even more enjoyable.
Prelude does not mean the same thing to everyone and it is not always the same thing. Sometimes it is exactly what it seems, which is stimulation before sex. Sometimes sex can be excluded, and foreplay can be an activity in itself. Partners involved in foreplay may not achieve sex play per se, but only achieve orgasm with foreplay. For women, touching the clitoris with the hand by the partner can lead to orgasm without the need for penetration. For men, oral sex leads to a faster and more intense orgasm than that obtained after vaginal or anal penetration.
The effects of foreplay
In addition to the fact that these are activities that provide a state of pleasure, foreplay means more than that, having effects not only physical (erection, lubrication of the vagina, etc.), but also mental (creating a strong emotional bond between partners).
The physical effects of the prelude
From a physical point of view, foreplay leads to sexual arousal during the sexual encounter and increased desire, eliciting certain responses in the body:
- Increased heart rate, pulse, and blood pressure.
- The blood vessels, including those in the genital area, dilate.
- More blood goes to the genital area, which is why the penis, the labia, and the clitoris enlarge during the sexual encounter.
- The breasts become more sensitive and the nipples become stronger.
- The vagina is lubricated, which prevents pain during intercourse and makes it much more pleasant.
Men and foreplay
For many men, sex without foreplay is exactly what they want to achieve quickly. Basically, they don't see the purpose and value of foreplay in the context of sex. Some even fear that during foreplay they will lose their erection during the sexual encounter, which is why they rush to intercourse. For them, sex is seen as a kind of performance whereby they will be judged and graded. Women, however, are more concerned with feeling generally satisfied and less with the length of the act itself, the size of the penis, or maintaining an erection.
Women and foreplay
Most women value foreplay more than the act itself. They often need foreplay before sex, as a warm-up, and sometimes only as an independent act. Only about 30% of women can only reach orgasm after vaginal penetration, and the rest need clitoral stimulation to experience the most intense pleasures. If a man accepts this truth, he will also understand the value of foreplay, he will accept that it can be of the utmost importance to his partner and that in addition, it will bring him satisfaction that he might not even have. not thought of.
How painful is the first intercourse?
There is also no standard answer to this question, as it depends on each individual. Some girls feel no pain, while for others the first contact is rather uncomfortable. This discomfort is due to stretching or rupture of the hymen, which may be accompanied by a small amount of bleeding.
Most of the time, the girl is not aroused enough (or has too many emotions), so her vagina is not lubricated enough, which makes penetration more difficult. But, the good news is that not all sexual contact will be like this, after the first sexual contact it will be more and more comfortable.
Do I need to protect myself when I have sex? Even if it's the first time?
Yes, you should have safe sex absolutely every time, even if it is your first sexual contact. Whenever semen or pre-cum reaches the vagina, even if it is a penetration of only a few seconds, the condition for the onset of pregnancy is met, whether it is from the first or the hundredth sexual contact that you have.
It is very important to use a reliable method of contraception to avoid pregnancy or a sexually transmitted disease. For your partner's concerns, remember that the only method of contraception that protects against sexually transmitted diseases is the condom.
How long should intercourse last?
There is no correct answer to this question, intercourse can last less than a minute or tens of minutes. Additionally, there is no unanimously accepted time limit for indicating that intercourse is successful. Keep in mind that if sex becomes uncomfortable for you at any point, you can stop.